I wanted to know if height was the only difference and the constant deal breaker. And no amount of complaining is going to change it. And why, in God’s name, is it important to stand on your tiptoes to kiss a guy? Is there any legitimate reason not to go out with this amazing, amazing man? So I moved my profile from Pittsburgh and posted it for 3 days in a town where nobody knew me (Philadelphia). Here’s what I found: This proves, in stark and undeniable terms, two things:…Life – and people – can be incredibly unfair. You may even sense that your messages probably aren’t engaging or emotionally stimulating enough to spark her interest.That means you can attract hot women, even if you’re not Ryan Gosling’s stunt double.As they say in advertising, it’s all about the branding.All it takes is the confidence and willingness to own the alpha male persona.
That bend-and-kneel combo he has to do to embrace you in a spot that won't choke you just feels wrong.12. Airplanes, buses, restaurants...boyfriend's super-sized legs are going to take up whatever space you have to spare. People say go for shorter girls but they don't want us short guys either.I feel like no girl would want me because of my height I don't want to just to work all my life and have no one special.You know attractive women on dating sites and apps get bombarded with interest from men, and it’s not easy to stand out. So don’t delete Tinder and cancel your Match subscription just yet.It’s time to stop being boring and start being irresistible.When a women looks at your dating profile, she’s trying to get a sense of what it’s like to be around you.She may even begin to imagine what sharing a life with you would be like.If you’re a regular reader, you probably knew that I was on the CBS Early Show in July. We wrote two new profile essays that were unique, funny and confident.Appearing with me was one of my all-time favorite clients, Tom Pandolfo. We renamed him “Look Ma No Hair.”And we watched as his in-box filled up with interested women.It's also why they'll be attracted to “normal guys” just like you, who have a solid career.If you can convey alpha male traits in your dating profile and messages, you’ll be on the path to attracting the kind of women you want to meet.