Both halves of a couple will notice weaknesses and differences or flaws.
“Cute” habits might become irritating at this stage.
Early attraction often involves the physical attributes of the partner and include things like outward appearance, body type, interests and personality traits.
At this stage, the attraction may not be too “deep” and each half of a couple is generally putting his or her best foot forward.
This is also an important stage for couples to use to evaluate the relationship and their ability to be part of an emotionally intelligent relationship.
This is when the big question emerges even more strongly: “Where are we headed?Some stages take longer than others to go through and some people take much longer at each stage.Unfortunately, some people don’t fully experience and process each stage as an opportunity for personal growth or to make a healthy evaluation about the relationship or about themselves.Towards the end of this stage, and hopefully at other times throughout it, it is not unusual for questions of “is this the right person for me” to emerge.For women especially there may also be a desire to figure out where the relationship is headed.Some of those perpetual issues or differences such as free-spending or frugal, neat and orderly or sloppy and disorganized, interested in lots of time together or more involved in outside activities begin to emerge.At this stage of the relationship, couples will take note of the differences and may even begin to complain or attempt to problem-solve.Different arenas for meeting allow for different opportunities to get to know each other and see if there is enough curiosity or interest to take it to the next level which would involve arranging a second or third meeting.Stage 2: Curiosity, Interest, and Infatuation During the second stage, attraction and infatuation are most pronounced.Getting Some Distance Making Him Notice You Again Keeping Him This Time Community Q&A It's not easy to make your ex-boyfriend want you back. To get started, focus on being patient and working on your differences, and hopefully the two of you will be able to come together once more.When you feel ready to get your ex boyfriend back, make him notice you by going to parties he goes to or posting fun things on social media.