I, who got dumped, and keep hoping that she'll take me back, remember many happy moments. " After 22 years together, those words cut me like knife. Some people have the ability to keep from getting as deeply emotionally attached as others.She, who got rid of me, needs to justify it by painting me as a no good husband who only made her miserable. You would have such self-respect and feel great if you just ignore her advances. I feel no good anymore, broken and desperately lonely. In the beginning of a relationship they seem as googly eyed as anyone else, but they are secretly guarded. I was no saint, but I was always faithful and I never would have left her for the reasons she left me, and still don't quite believe her.Reply While I am currently experiencing number three on your list of what not to do, "Rewrite history", by imagining that everything was always cheery, I find that my wife is experiencing number three in reverse. deep down i want this to work out and the truth is she and i are severly not right for each other. She no longer speaks to anyone from her past it's like she has a new life at 42 , I think she has gone insane Reply My world crunbled about 6 months ago when my (now ex) wife told me she wanted a divorce. Reply My divorce was finalized at the end of January, though we split of up 3 years ago. Or maybe my sadness is because I feel like I let my daughter down.She keeps telling me how I put her through ten torturous years of marriage, and how me finally moving out was the best day of her life, and how she is so much happier now. I suspected that she had (or still has) an emotional affair. She remarried recently and I can't seem to move on. Either way, I can shake this feeling of blame, even though we're approaching the 4th year of being split up, and with her being remarried, etc.It’s a little sad, in a way, and you almost miss that pain, just because you lived with it for such a long, long time. There’s nothing better than that moment you look in the mirror and think, “Wow, look where I was a year ago, and look at me now.” Divorced Guy Grinning is a blog for men facing divorce and dating after divorce. Has not seen our son In 6 months but texts him every now and then.It's kind of like hanging out with your platonic female divorced friend and hearing her perspective on your divorce and your love life issues. We were married for 16 years and have known her for 38 years .
Enjoy life while it is there to enjoy and while you are able to enjoy it.
Reply My "ex" wife plays me monthly knowing i want her acts they way she acted when we first met.pulls me in then makes up with her boyfriend and throws me away. Yes, with so many people on the planet there are certainly women who I would be thrilled to be with, but they are not available to me geographically. I was raised to believe that I wasn't complete without the love of a woman.
My ex is still in town, and I get to see her with her boyfriend.... I did alot.me and my ex .out more..dinner dates...movies.. I have had the love of a woman more than once, and while it certainly has it's moments, the price is much too steep. Reply My wife left me 3 weeks ago, I found out she has been having an affair for around a year, she's pregnant to him too. I worked my butt off and provided for me and hubby.
I believe that was just the eexcuse to get out of the marriage.
Our marriage was not a good marriage and she definitely could have been a better wife but also believe she never loved me in the first place.