“You have to know that things that happen like this are out of your control.” Life happens, and you have to put yourself first when it does.“I am still holding on but it has come to the point where you need to do what is best for yourself and let go of something that no longer serves you,” Lauren says.
“I was in an amazing relationship with a guy who was my opposite in every way…we were so good together, but in the back of both of our minds, I think we knew it wouldn't last,” says Cristina.
It's like someone about to go into surgery, watching two doctors on have a soap-opera fight while standing over a person whose chest is cut open. It should be by whatever transportation you need to get home.
Grease up that escape hatch and sliiiiide right in. You definitely want to be sitting and prepared for the conversation — it'll throw you off if you show up late and frazzled and he's already there, waiting.
Maybe you had bad timing, like a casual summer hook-up that started to get serious, but you both had to return to school.
Maybe one of you was fresh out of another relationship, and there was just no way you could get into something serious again.