There is perhaps tension from other children from a previous marriage if adult and resentful, but on the other hand, there may be more acceptance and awareness if the family divorced and remarried in a considerate and acceptable way.” There’s no guarantee that all divorced men have grown beyond the hurt, but divorce does have the power to change a person for better or for worse.And if it’s for the better, Masini believes that a man can become more evolved by facing this type of hardship and loss.
Masini says, “And they know quality now because what they had before, wasn’t. It’s much more about the effort that may now be involved between the sheets.
Kids: Someone who is divorced (depending on his age) most likely has kids, which means he will feel a little bit more comfortable with your kids. Nakedness in broad daylight, those annoying habits, likes clothes all over the floor, the burping and farting you never experience when you’re dating, and really the way the person lives. He’s not bashing his ex every three days, he’s not saying good-bye to his kids and then having that sad look on his face, and he doesn’t have that wounded look that says, “My wife ruined my life.” The never been married guy is fresh, untainted. Commitment: There’s commitment and then there’s commitment. He stood in front of God or a judge and a crowd of people and agreed to commit in writing. Both divorced guys and guys who have never been married can be amazing guys. In other words, I’m not saying one is better than the other.
Remember, there are some guys who have never been married who have kids, and there are some guys who have never been married but have dated a lot of women with kids, so they might be used to being around kids. The ability to be domestic, in other words, can he play house? Although, how do I know he wasn’t madly in love and then dumped? A guy who has never done that could have a commitment issue. There are advantages and disadvantages to both guys.
If these kids are grown, a divorced man may want to experience that part of life again with the right woman — and a new baby.
Based on what she’s seen as a licensed marriage and family therapist, Bahar says, “Many times, there is a possibility that he will marry a younger woman and experience fatherhood in a different way.